Friday 25 July 2014

Pregnancy - 'What Is Normal And What Is Not Normal'

     Pregnancy is the most special period for all women in their life. 'Unique Also'. 

Carrying a life inside her for almost 280 days is beyond human being's imagination. Can anyone 'At least' imagine the changes she has to undergo internally, when even a robot which doesn't have life has to undergo so many processes in it's making?




What is normal
    To begin with.. Each Baby Is Different even before they are born, which makes Pregnancy Different for Each Women.

   The first trimester begins with lots and lots of joy. People around her would rejoice the happy news. But all that she experiences is simply fatigue. Lots and lots of food aversion, vomiting and giddiness.
This is also a period in which a women feels so insecure and expects a lot of moral support from her family and friends.

    Almost for all women fatigue fades out in the second trimester. However for few women it may not stop until the date of delivery. This trimester will be mainly occupied by digestion related problems like acidic trouble, indigestion, constipation etc., 

     Back Pain!!!! This would be the main problem for all women in their last trimester. The baby would have grown big and since the baby's weight has to rest on the back bone and latter  on the pelvic bone, she may have pain in those bones. For some women the legs may get swollen often in this trimester. 

    Apart from the above stated troubles, simply mention any other troubles and for sure at least ten percent of the pregnant women would face it.
     
What Is Not Normal
  Have a Happy Pregnancy

Why is that nothing has been written under 'What Is Not Normal'. Yes!!! It's Obvious!!!!Everything is Normal in Pregnancy. That is how my Gynecologist used to tell me each time I visited her with a new complaint.  All that a pregnant women can do is let her gynecologist know about the changes in her body who will be the only person to decide whether it is normal or not.
      
Believe It Or Not!!!! She will for sure pat herself, in near future, saying 'It's Really Worth The Pain I Had' at many special Moments.
     The Moment she sees her baby for the first time.
     The Moment she touches her new born's little finger. 
The Moment her new born smiles at her for the first time.
     The Moment her baby calls her 'amma/ma' for the first time.
The Moment her baby stops crying as soon as he/she sees her entering the room.
          The Moment her toddler runs and hugs her tightly, even when she has left her child back home only for a hour or two.
     The Moment her toddler wipes her tears in her eyes and do something funny to make her laugh.
 No One except her can experience such priceless moments. She doesn't need any photographs or recordings for these memories. Isn't her pains are really worth after getting so many valuable moments that she could cherish throughout her life??????

A well handled pregnancy will always lead to a better labor!!


               

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